Sociologists
believe that a healthy personality is formed in the family under the
influence of parents, especially the mother. Women make the future for
the people of every society. Therefore, the formation of a woman’s
character is very important. The
mother of today is the child of yesterday, who has grown up and been
raised in the warm hands of her mother, who paved the way for raising
another generation. Psychologists say that psychologist's sympathetic security, to love and to be loved, is what every human being seeks in her/his life. The one who possesses these characteristics can present his/her love to others as a gift. Erich
From said, “Every healthy human being should be able to love
him/herself first, then sacrifice his/her love to others.” What should
we do if we want to get this security? When a child enters the world,
he/she experiences anxiety. It is the mother’s duty to alleviate
this concern. When a child is born, the mother is considered to be the
source of nutrition, life, and love. The presence of the mother makes
the child feel calm and secure. So, the mother, this source of life and
energy, should have a lively personality. We
should not use “love” as the only tool. For raising children, because
love is a goal not a tool. For example, if our child breaks his/her
toys, we should not say. “I do not love you anymore.” because this
would have a bad effect on the child. The child would be more worried
about losing his/her mother’s love than about the broken toy. If
the child’s toy is broken again, s/he would lie about it and not
mention the broken toy. One sentence has made the child lie and hide
what has happened. The mother should say, “I don’t like what you did,”
not “I don’t love you anymore. A
child who is worried about losing maternal love acquires bad habits and
can never leave his/her mother. How can this child grow up and become a
good independent mother of father?
Sympathetic/adjective/: compassionate, caring همدرد، دلسوز، شفيق، غمخوار، موافق
Generation/noun/: group of people born around the same timeتوليد، زايش، نسل Seek /verb/: go in search of, look for; search forجستجو كردن، جوييدن، طلبيدن، پوييدن Alleviate/verb/: allay, soothe, relieveسبك كردن، آرام كردن، كم كردن | 